A big tsunami like Fukushima every year. We had a discussion about having another child, I told her we had two wonderful children and I did not feel it was necessary to have a third and I thought she agreed,' the heartbroken husband said. 'Selfish' is a description, not a judgement. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. been late to work three times this week because of suicides? Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group, She jumped onto tracks atTaplow station with daughter on February 18, 2019. Her life these past months may have sheer hell for and/or family and she believed that this was the "honourable way out", as the Japanese people believe it to be. British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. Steve's right! Surely "taking it out" on someone implies intent Smorkian? If she'd had someone to listen to her - really listen - this might not have happened. The MTA confirmed that somebody was hit at the station and that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 train service was affected by the ensuing emergency response. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. When the person awakes and lives witha feeling of nothingness and utter despair do you think they can have consideration for otehrs even you with your busy schedule. Girl, 2, looks star-struck as she presents Kate with a gift of Daffodils for St David's A bargain fit for a king: Grade II-listed manor house complete with barn and gatehouse is listed at auction Who said black and white pics were flattering! 'After the birth of our second child, she relapsed and was admitted to hospital again. The ability to comment on our stories is a privilege, not a right, however, and that privilege may be withdrawn if it is abused or misused. Newsquest Media Group Ltd, Loudwater Mill, Station Road, High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire. Awareness of the effects of one's actions on others yet choosing in one's own favor is a requisite of selfishness, and this woman, in all likelyhood, wasn't. I would liek to see an awareness programme for people to understand mental illnes, depression and suicide better. And the number is increasing - the year before was around 30.000. You can reach out and feel 'connected' to the world and to people via the myriad social streams available, but that doesn't feel to me like real engagement. where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. So please don't accuse me of not understanding, I understand it all far too well. 'Stop and think' is always good advice. A suicide note has also been recovered by the police. A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. I bet that's exactly what she wanted. A very great part of the problem though, is that people simply withdraw, something very easy to do in society nowadays. Zdenka kept her third pregnancy a secret from her husband for five months, the coroner heard. Counseling is almost never heard of and even mentioning that you have a mental sickness is already a death sentence, people will shun you like the Ebola virus. What is wrong wih you people, did you grow up in the 19th century? To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? Chiyoda-ku And even in death she's seen as a big fail by some here. It seems some people don't understand the meaning of the word 'selfish': lacking consideration for others. I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. I understand it completely. The loco pilot managed to stop the train and both of them escaped with injuries. Please show her and her family some respect. I even came close once, and I probably would not be sitting here typing this if not for intervention. contact the editor here. We should sop thinking so much about ourselves, ok we are late for work, but a fellow human has died, their shoudl be pity for the deceased and their family not bitterness and anger.Humanity needs a lot of improvement. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. On January 2 2018, the couple went to the Royal Berkshire Hospital for a baby scan where they were told the infant was 'small' and may have a facial deformity. They see, but many if not most times do not register what occurred, they let things go much faster and do not let it get to them. All trains should be like Namboku line - no stress there. All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? 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Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. 35.000 last year, which roughly means 100 per day, which turn to be one every 15 minutes more or less |. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. Loan compamies that are often yakuza-backed and will hound someone no end.) Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". They lose their self esteem completely and compound with bad the economy, two-thirds of the people in Japan has money worries and they are feeling helpless. I ahve seen this happen to someone, leading up to their death i got hurt so did many others. Somehow she wasn't up to speed, couldn't get with the program. This happens everyday, another happy day in Japan. There is a good deal of toing and froing.'. Describing the CCTV footage, DS Rees told the inquest: 'Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. NDTV delivers reliable information across all platforms: TV, Internet and Mobile.Subscribe for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/ndtv?sub_confirmation=1Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ndtvFollow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ndtvDownload the NDTV Apps: http://www.ndtv.com/page/appsWatch more videos: https://khabar.ndtv.com/videos?yt 'On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.'. However, it doesn't excuse what I feel is an overwhelming atmosphere herein - that people are criticizing that woman for not thinking about the aftermath of her suicide. I know about this and how the mind will not allow rational thought, how all help means nothing and life is pointless. Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. I was trying to get rid of her sadness.'. 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Some like yourself may contemplate and be abel to stop the urges and possibly get help For soemthey may get further and feel there is no help or they are so far gone into the darkness to be helped. ultimately used her flying corpse as a projectile with which to smash through a shop door with the sole intention of injuring and traumatizing four people inside the store. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. Bad decision on her part. For confidential support call the Samaritans in the UK on 08457 90 90 90, visit a local Samaritans branch or click here for details. Police had few immediate details, but said the person may have jumped in front of the subway. I hope to hear from you. Of course she didn't. . Another sad and quiet tragedy unfolds. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. - Just nuts man!!! Very useful skills indeed! There are few posters on here who don't say it's a shame she did what she did, and that it's horrible she reached such a point where she felt this was the only option. contact IPSO here, 2001-2023. Stressful start to National Offer Day? US firms waiting in the wings read to pump 'billions Parents' fury as schools STILL won't tell them if they are closed tomorrow as teacher strikes continue. it has NOTHING to do with it. If people wish to suicide, whatever, just dont take down others with you. I always wonder if train jumpers are so frustrated w/ society, that this is their final, middle-finger salute. A police official familiar with the case said . Burakimin, come on man. By In . But having witnessed that (note that nothing happened) I felt really sick. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. Ms Redmond eventually came to a platform which was cordoned off to the public. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. You apparently simply cannot empathize with someone who has stopped thinking rationally. That's truly sad. 'She in fact picks Melsadie up and literally hoists her over that locked gate and places her on the platform. I am so sorry for this poor soul and the people affected, particularly the poor driver who had to witness this. i wish people who post here would Learn MORE about Japan This article tells us where she died but not where she was from. More people rush to help the duo, and they are eventually pulled onto the platform. That wouldn't be selfish, it would be malevolent. The coroner said: 'At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). In a moving tribute, her husband JudeYabani told an inquest: 'I will never regret having her in my life.'. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. Mr Wade said: 'The next thing she appears to do, she does when no member of the public is in her immediate vicinity. A young mother was killed when she jumped in front of the train at the Wellawa Waraddana railway crossing yesterday (24) afternoon. The inquest was set to continue for five days. DS Rees agreed that Melsadie was 'behaving well' and did not 'appear to be demanding' until the mother and daughter were seen leaving the station. 7 train at the 40th Street-Lowery Street station in Sunnyside around 4:15 a.m., cops said. A heavily pregnant woman died this morning after jumping in front of a high-speed train - also killing her unborn baby. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. 2) The person could commit the act suddenly and without others knowing what is about to happen. With our first child, she had severe post natal depression. We can expect more people to commit suicide if they feel they can't survive in this country. I wish they talk to me. She was seen wrapped in a poncho walking hand-in-hand with daughter Melsadie, who was wearing alittle furry parker jacket with a winter hat and gloves, at the station one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. Who "died" and made you the queen of Japanese suicide ethics/morality? She was seen 'pushing' and 'kicking' against a gate to the platform. 'It made me late for work' -type posts - Yes indeed. The BTP officer said that the mother and daughter again spent time walking from platform to platform before climbing the footbridge, where Melsadie was seen looking 'distressed' and was picked up by Ms Redmond. I doubt if she needs any now. Auto Loans by Suruga Bank do not require permanent residency to apply. I like Cleo's comment about those contemplating suicide, taking time to get their affairs in order and as a ancillary benefit, truly sitting down to evaluate and think. Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks atTaplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. She was a resident of Paharganj area of Delhi. DS Rees said: 'Leighane Redmond had several debts in several forms. But she couldn't be part of that society, could she? A mix of what's trending on our other sites, Japan reports 13,950 new coronavirus cases, 1st foreign cruise ship in 3 years arrives in Japan, Japan births hit all-time low in 2022; below 800,000 for 1st time, 'Paper City': The untold story of the firebombing of Tokyo in World War II, Putin orders Ukraine border tightening as drones hit Russia, Japanese Americans who won redress, now fight for Black reparations, Musk accuses media of racism after newspapers drop 'Dilbert' cartoon. Taking Vitamin D each day could cut your chances of getting dementia, study claims. My life is more complicated>. Whenever something like this happens, there's someone whose job it is to clean up the mess. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. In a startling incident at the Dadar station Maharashtra's Mumbai, a woman jumped before a train. UPPER WEST SIDE, NY A woman died after jumping in front of a train at the West 72nd Street and Broadway subway station Thursday night, an NYPD spokeswoman told Patch. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. Police say although there were no eyewitnesses to the incident, the events were captured by a station security camera. The much-in-love couple married and moved to Manchester in the UK in July 2005. So yes, prevention starts in the early years. With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can This site is part of Newsquest's audited local newspaper network. There are organizations and individuals out there that are trying to deal with this societal problem, but I think it takes a very special type of person to be able to tackle this head-on. Fax: +81 3 5829 5919 Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). Why, of course it is! Yeah, she was a big fail, wasn't she? The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., policesaid. A woman in Mumbai's Kandivali area committed suicide by jumping in front of a Mumbai local train on Wednesday afternoon. Data returned from the Piano 'meterActive/meterExpired' callback event. I applaud the sheer ingenuity of this theory! The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. Cleo -- how dare you choose to lecture someone who is contemplating suicide? 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